My whole family are very, very Christian and only recently I’ve found myself attracted to guys and girls. I’m not sure if it’s a phase or if it’s permanent… But I’d really like to know for sure whether being friendly with bothe genders is against Christian Belief.
Thank you 
Tahn,
There are a lot of christians who believe that having intercourse for any reason other than having a baby is wrong. This is a 1st century AD mind-set. If it doesn’t feel wrong to you, and you are not hurting anyone, look inside yourself for the answer. A million people can tell you that you’re wrong, but listen to the voice inside you. That will always help you. Some parts of the Bible were written expressly for the times in which the writer wrote. Remember these were men who long hoped for control over a group of people. There are many differences of opinion here so again, I say to listen to your own heart when it comes to this.
I could be a good adult and tell you that you should not have sex at all until you’re married and only then to have a baby. This is what a lot of christians espouse, but never follow.
So, hypocrites abound about sexuality. Again, listen to yourself.
Peace,
Bret